Pregnancy: Update at 17 Weeks

Yesterday was a huge day for Donna and I in that we found out what we are having. In my mind I already knew that we were having a little girl but just needed to hear it from someone wearing scrubs or a lab coat to believe it. Needless to say we are both so excited about our baby girl. We have had a name picked out for either sex for a long time now, our choice for a girl has always been Shelby Mae (both of our grandmothers middle names are Mae, so this wasn’t a hard one at all).

In my earlier posts you might recall my mentioning how nervous I have been going into doctors appointments to have ultrasounds, probably has a lot to do w/ our past complications trying to get pregnant and the three miscarriages we have had to endure. Without getting too deep on this short update I will just say that it’s been a tug of war between my concern for my wife and my faith in God. Don’t get me wrong, I know God is in control and have all along but yesterday when we reached the milestone of actually finding out what we were having and being able to put a name on this baby it was like God spoke to me as if to say, just do your part and let me do mine. I’ve let you put a name on this baby just like Adam named all of creation. There’s something about this recent milestone that I hope I can sit down and elaborate on in another post one day soon.

As far as Donna goes, she’s doing great! Shelby Mae really showed out on the ultrasounds yesterday too, I am posting two YouTube videos from the doctors visit. Thanks for all of your continued prayers of support! You will never know how much we appreciate them!!


This is the video of us finding out what we are having. Actually the nurse had already told us but I made her do it again because I wanted it captured on video. I’m a nerd I know…


In this video you can see Shelby is completely upside down in the womb w/ her legs kicked back over her head. There’s a really good profile shot in this video.

Again, thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers!!!

Powersite Real Estate CMS (Deprecated)

It doesn’t seem like that long ago that it seemed like a practical idea to hand code custom solutions for clients using PHP/MySQL from scratch or onto of light frameworks as opposed to just extending CMS (Content Management Solutions), but in reality it has been a long time and I’m just getting old. Several years ago I worked with several Real Estate Companies as well as developers around the country to put together my own database driven content management system for Real Estate Companies to manage their online inventory of properties, integrate their existing IDX MLS data, and create custom HTML pages on the fly. Looking back it was a pretty robust solution for it’s time and quiet honestly it was pretty nice.

Well, fast forward a couple of years and content management solutions like WordPress, Joomla, Drupal, and MODx, are all over the web and deploying custom applications on top of these solutions using either plugins that are available as open source projects or by premium plugins that are either written internally or purchased from a third party, this is just simply the way to go. Especially given that over half the world is on one of these platforms to begin with. It’s for this reason that I decided a while back to retire my Powersite Real Estate CMS solution because it just didn’t seem like a practical use of my time to continue developing something that I didn’t foresee a market for. One thing that really helped me make this decision was that phone calls w/ realtors became a lot more complicated after the housing crisis and the recent economic downturn. Instead of looking to spend money to have the latest and greatest features, they were looking to cut costs however they could.

Recently I have had a handful of requests from developers to release the source code for this project to them so they could branch it and try some new things.  While I strongly urge against trying to stand up my source code today and build anything from it, I can see how it might be valuable for developers working on their own solutions to see how various components of my application worked so that they can integrate them into their own solutions. It’s all about paying it forward I guess, my partners and I have done well with the solution and have no plans to re-introduce it. I have made it available on Github.com, you will need to contact me to allow you access because I am not releasing it to the public because I have no time whatsoever to support it. If you are interested, drop me your Github user ID. You can find me on Github here…

Shop the Arkansas Dream Center Mall

I have had several people ask me how they can get involved w/ helping needy Children in Central Arkansas have a Merry Christmas. Of course I always point everyone to our website at The One, Inc., where we are currently helping roundup coats for several hundred kids that need them. Something else Donna and I are very active in helping with is the Arkansas Dream Center, we’re hoping to touch the lives of thousands of families in Arkansas this Christmas season by providing those in need with a holiday experience they can enjoy. This requires the help of everyone at New Life, along with churches and organizations across the state partnering together to gather gifts and donations for those in need. Please take a few minutes to browse the gift options below and pick out which gifts you would like to provide for a family who would enjoy it. Place that gift in your cart and check out and we’ll take care of the rest. Thanks for participating in making the lives of thousands of people statewide just a bit brighter this holiday season.

Payment is handled through Paypal, which uses industry-standard encryption on all purchases. You may pay with credit card or through your own paypal account. If you prefer, you may also text ARDC to 85944 to donate $10 which will be deducted from your next phone bill. Standard messaging rates may apply.  If you have problem viewing the website below, please visit: http://ardcmall.com

Wimpy’s Combos – Photoshoot

I met our manager, Greg, at Wimpy’s this morning to take some high-resolution photos for use on our new menuboards. I was a bit concerned how everything was going to turn out because a) it was 7am and I’m not alert until 11am or so, and b) I haven’t shot anything w/ my Pentax K100d in so long that I was afraid I might forget how to use it.

Well, long story short, we managed to get some great shots of our combo’s that include the sandwich, fries, and drink. I literally can’t wait until Wimpy’s Jonesboro opens up over the next few weeks. I just hope all of my Jonesboro peeps have gym memberships lined out because I promise you this is not diet food by any means…

Support the Arkansas Dream Center

I have people ask me all the time how they can get involved or support our non-profit, The One, Inc., or The Arkansas Dream Center. The truth is that there are hundreds of ways you can help out, the best way is to visit both of the websites for these organizations because they both have updated lists of current needs for anyone looking to help out. If you are familiar w/ The One and ARDreamCenter, you probably already know that both of these organizations do a lot of great work! This time of year we could really use your support financially in order to make an impact in our community.

My good friend, Neil Greathouse, sent me a note earlier this week about a cool fund-raising program the Dream Center has going w/ Q-Pon Revolution, an electronic coupon solution, that will donate a dollar to the Dream Center anytime someone uses their app at a participating location in our area. The money generated from this fund-raiser will go directly toward feeding a kid at the Dream Center.

If you are interested in helping out, just visit the Q-Pon Revolution website and download their app and use it at the following locations:

  • Tropical Smoothie Maumelle
  • Tropical Smoothie Rivermarket
  • Shake’s Conway
  • Oak St. Bistro
  • Stromboli’s
  • Cherry Berry Conway
  • Pitza 42
  • JJ’s Grill
  • Hair Mechanics

Not only will you save money when you take part in this promotion but you will also be helping out The Arkansas Dream Center in a big way!!!

About The Arkansas Dream Center

The Arkansas Dream Center is a 501c3 non-profit dedicated to helping Arkansans. We provide hope by meeting both tangible and spiritual needs. It is very simple. We are going out into the communities of Arkansas, we are seeking out the hurting and the hopeless; then we are doing whatever it is we can to meet those needs and to make life better. We reach out to hurting and needy children, families and adults across all races and cultures each week. The Arkansas Dream Center strives to help solve moral decay, crime, drugs, gangs, homelessness and poverty epidemics that exist throughout Arkansas. The vision of the Arkansas Dream Center is to see thousands of hurting people come to know a new life through the efforts of our staff, volunteers, and recently rehabilitated individuals whose lives have been dramatically changed. The Arkansas Dream Center works to partner with people all around Arkansas to reach the lost and help meet the community’s most basic and greatest needs.

About Q-Pon Revolution

Qpon Revolution is an advertising business based out of Little Rock. One of our core values at Qpon Revolution is Social Responsibility, and we do this through our QR gives back program. We sponsor local non-profit organizations in our community, such as christian organizations and charities. The QR gives back program rewards these local non-profits every time a Qpon is redeemed using the Qpon app. Each organization will be partnered with a local business(es) for a certain duration of time.  For example, NLC could be partnered with Tropical Smoothie Maumelle, Shake’s Conway, Pitza 42, Oak St. Bistro just to name a few. For each Qpon redeemed at these places of business, NLC will receive 50 cents to $1 per Qpon Redeemed. Typically the partnership duration will be a 1 month term. After this term has ended, the organization may have an opportunity to partner with a different local business. Through the mutual success of this partnership, both business and organization benefit.
In addition to these sponsorships, Qpon Revolution faithfully gives 10% of its profits to B.I.G Love Cancer Care, an organization that serves kids with cancer and their families in Arkansas and Texas.

 

Facebook Acquires Gowalla…

The story was broken this evening on CNNMoney that Facebook had purchased Gowalla, I actually got a heads up this morning that this might be going down soon. I’m pretty mixed on this.  It’s no great secret that I was a huge Gowalla fan in the early days of location based services and geosocial but the latest evolution of the Gowalla product really drained me pretty bad and just like most of my friends I stopped using it altogether. I would have personally liked to have seen Gowalla go back to what they were in the beginning that had all of us on fire about the app but I think once the new release rolled out they were pretty much committed at that point.

What will the future hold for Gowalla? I have heard that the Gowalla team will be relocating to Palo Alto in the future and will fit into the Facebook timeline, whatever that means. To me that sounds like integration into Facebook, and that this acquisition was more or less a talent grab. I do think that there is serious room in the geosocial arena for a player like Gowalla and that they just gave up to quickly when they did what they did with their latest release.

What are your thoughts?


For some reason this just seemed appropriate…

Pregnancy: Update at 16 Weeks

This has by far been the best week of our pregnancy for me because I am finally starting to relax a little bit. I’m not following my wife into the women’s restroom while we are out in public to make sure everything is okay (okay, I haven’t actually done that but I was close a few times). The problems that I mentioned in my week 14 blog post that Donna was experiencing are no more! I’m pretty sure prayer knocked those out of the park! Our Urologist was very cool and spent a lot of time w/ us going over possible scenarios that might have been the root cause but at the end of the day he was very honest and said that he had no clue why she had the problems but that they were no more!!

We also visited our OBGYN this week and got to see our bundle of joy on the ultrasound again. Everything appears to be developing just perfectly and Dr. Cole said that we were entering into the phase where we could actually relax and enjoy the pregnancy. These were welcome words to me because I knew that there was a particular point during a pregnancy where the risk for miscarriage was dramatically lowered and apparently we are past that stage now. Our OBGYN tried to see on the ultrasound if he could tell us what we were going to have, boy or girl, but we were unable to really make out anything. We are going to go for a different type of ultrasound in 2 weeks that will give us a better picture and hopefully I can break that news in my next blog post to you guys. Oh, and one other tidbit of information, our baby has ears now. Instead of going to bed at night watching re-runs of Two and a Half Men, we are watching History and Discover Channel.

Thanks again for all of your thoughts and prayers of support during this pregnancy! Please continue!!!

Pregnancy: Update at 14 Weeks

This past week has probably been the most stressful week so far during our pregnancy. I have had to take Donna to the Emergency Room two nights in a row because she couldn’t urinate. This has been the weirdest thing in that she has no problems at all going during the day but in the middle of the night she has had trouble going. Both times at the ER they were able to put a catheter in and have been able to drain her bladder and get some relief. The second visit they left the catheter in overnight but the next morning we removed it after speaking with our OBGYN. The risk for infection is just too great for her to have a catheter in all of the time so he got us in to see a Urologist to help us track down the problem.

While the Urologist wasn’t able to really give us a reason why she is experiencing these issues he did say that he didn’t feel like this was something that we would have to deal with long term. He said that he was hopeful that it would only last a week or two and that we could get by using an at-home catheter kit (which Donna said was a lot better than the ones they used at the ER). One thing is for sure, my wife is a whole lot tougher than I am when it comes to things like this. If I was faced w/ the idea that I had to have a catheter 4 times a day I’m pretty sure I would freak completely out.

On the upside to all of this, each time we have visited the ER we have been able to see the baby on the ultrasound and hear the fetal heartbeat. The heartbeat has been very strong and during the ultrasounds we have been able to see it moving it’s head around and even sucking it’s thumb (or at least that’s what it looked like to me). Being able to see these images of the baby has really helped put us at ease knowing that God has his hand on this pregnancy and is walking hand in hand with us throughout each of the challenges we are faced with.

As for my problems w/ the stomach ulcer, etc. I am doing a lot better, my doctor put me on a pretty strong medication to treat the ulcers and I have been able to start eating breakfast again, although the smell of scrambled eggs and anything with garlic in it still makes me pretty nauseous. We will move into our 15th week this Sunday, Praise the Lord!! I’m curious, have any other dad’s to be ever experienced morning sickness while their wife was pregnant? My mom says that my dad did while she was pregnant w/ me. At any rate, it’s an interesting phenomenon that can’t be explained…

Thoughts on Joe Paterno

Update: 11/10/11 10:30am – The more I am learning about this case, and after having read the grand jury testimony in the Sandusky case, I’m starting to look at this entire thing a little differently. I really want to believe that Joe Pa didn’t do anything wrong, or try to cover up / do the right thing in this case, but if some of the allegations I have heard since writing this post are true, I’m going to be pretty heartbroken.

I returned home this evening and saw a firestorm of tweets related to the news that Penn State’s Board of Trustees had decided to go ahead and fire Joe Paterno even though he had already announced that he was retiring at the end of the season. I was shocked to say the least. Now, before I go any further I want to make this known:

I despise the idea of a grown man, especially a person of trust, like Jerry Sandusky, molesting young children. It’s wrong, and I pray for the victims and their families. I just want to get this on the record, I also have no sympathy for anyone who participates in these acts either directly or indirectly by trying to cover it up.

The part that bothers me in this whole scenario is that I have a lot of respect for Joe Paterno, he’s always carried himself w/ a lot of dignity, class, and integrity over the years. He’s coached college football for over 60 years and in those 60 years there’s never really been any questioning his character on or off the field. He’s still married to his wife Sue that he’s been faithful to since the day they said “I do”. There’s never been any mention of Joe Pa sneaking around or having affairs, instead there’s always been stories about how he and his wife have given millions of dollars to various charities and establish educational facilities at Penn State. I know for a fact that the student library at Penn State came about as a donation from Joe and Sue Paterno. If you think about it long enough, I bet you can’t think of one skeleton that has ever came out of Joe Paterno’s closet over the years.

I recall a story where some sports vendor at Penn State, it was either Nike, Under Armour, or Adidas, approached the coach before a ball game and asked him to put on one of their sweaters to wear during a ball game. I can remember the sports vendor was under the impression that their contractual agreement with the school had locked in the fact that Joe Pa was going to wear their sweater on the sidelines as some sort of endorsement. Upon hearing this request, Joe Pa just smiled at the corporate representative and told them no that he thought he would just wear the sweater he had on because he liked it better, the rep stood there shocked and almost insisted that he change sweaters. Joe Paterno, still smiling, looked at the rep and told them that it wasn’t happening because his grandchildren had bought him that sweater and then he walked out of the room. To the best of my knowledge, he was never asked to change sweaters again. This is just one story about Joe Paterno that I have heard over the years, he was a class act.

If I am wrong about Joe Paterno’s character and if it comes out in trial that he did know about the child molestation and tried to cover it up, I will be the first to admit that he needs to go down w/ the rest of the group involved. This is something we don’t know for sure yet but we will soon. I’m saddened by the fact that one low-life, Jerry Sandusky, has brought down one of the brightest personalities in college football.

One other thing I would like to mention in closing, I feel as if Penn State’s Board of Trustees jumped the gun and acted prematurely given the fact that Sandusky hasn’t even been to trial yet. I feel as if they should have just left Joe Paterno’s resignation at the end of the season, that he had already announced, stand as his punishment. You just don’t fire someone who has been loyal and without blemish for over 60 years w/ a phone call if you can’t substantiate the allegations against him with anything other than here say (and that’s exactly what it is at this point, hear say, nothing has went to trial yet).

What are your thoughts??

Pregnancy: Thoughts at Week 12

Given our past problems w/ miscarriage early in our 3 past pregnancies, making it to the end of our first trimester (week 12) is a goal that my wife and I were really looking forward to because everything we have read on the topic says that the risk of miscarriage drops dramatically after the first trimester. Well, praise God, we made it to this momentous milestone this past week (see YouTube video below).

I’d love to say that everything up until this point has been a breeze, but I would be lying. Well, let me rephrase this, I wish I could say that everything for me up to this point has been a breeze, but it has not. My wife, the one actually carrying our child, has been cool as a cucumber during this entire pregnancy. Me, on the other hand, is another story. I guess I’ve just been so guarded due to our past experiences. I have been guarding over her the entire time and not allowing her to get too far out of my sight for fear that she will lift something heavy, fall down, or do something else crazy (knowing full well she wouldn’t). Today I went to the doctor to figure out why I have been able to drop 20lbs extremely quick (even though I am on a diet, the weight loss has been a lot faster than I anticipated). I have also had some problems recently w/ sharp burning stomach pains, fever, nausea, and indigestion. Our doctor had me lay back on the table and he basically put his hands right on the center of my discomfort immediately. It was almost like he knew right away what was wrong. Well, long story short, I’ve worried myself into having an ulcer…

The good news is that the ulcer is treatable. I’m already able to tell a difference a few hours later after having taken the medication he prescribed. From this day forward I’m focusing on something that should eliminate this from happening again in the future. Concerning our baby and this pregnancy, I’m pulling back and learning the difference between having faith in God and trusting God. From this point on I’m trusting God. This is an approach that my good friend Garth recommended a few weeks ago and has been in the back of my mind the entire time. If you pray, I would sure appreciate your prayers of support while I walk this walk out spiritually, and of course Donna and I appreciate all of your prayers concerning this pregnancy and the future of our awesome baby!!

In case you missed the Facebook post w/ our 12 week ultrasound on Facebook, here ya go!!

Also, I’m going to expand my Faith Category on this blog to include my daddy blog and renaming it: Faith/Family. I hope you enjoy my future posts…